'People are lonely, who shouldn't be': Maureen Greaves, widow of murdered Sheffield church organist, on community and the loneliness epidemic

She said: “There was a moment on Christmas Day - it was around six o’clock, I remember looking at the clock - and everybody had left the room.

“Everybody had come to say goodbye to Alan, in the family; our daughters had gone to get a drink and I was there with Alan by myself.

“I took hold of his hand and it suddenly made me reflect, ‘Gosh, this is going to be a murder case, someone somewhere has done this to Alan and he’s obviously going to die.’

“And then I thought, it’s Christmas day.”

Mrs Greaves, an officer with the Church Army, part of the Church of England, said an image came to her mind of the service she had been due to lead in her north Sheffield church that day, when she would have asked people to join her in the Lord’s Prayer and ask God to forgive their sins, ‘as we forgive those who sin against us’.

She also thought about the message of Jesus’ arrival, that Mr Greaves was due to have been preaching about during the same service.

“This made me really sit before God and say OK, God, you would want me to forgive the people that have done this to Alan and I do want to forgive them, so I want you to help me to do this because I want to do it fully and completely,” she said.

“So that when I meet them, and one day I will, your forgiveness will still be there, totally and permanently.”

Mrs Greaves, 69, did come face-to-face with her husband’s killers at the subsequent court hearings the following year, in which Jonathan Bowling, then 22, admitted murder and was sentenced to life in prison and Ashley Foster, also 22, was jailed for nine years for manslaughter. Mr Justice Teare said they had selected their victim “at random”.

Mrs Greaves said her faith gave her the strength to empathise with the men’s families and when Foster was released on licence last year, she said the news “didn’t floor me”.

At the time of Mr Greaves’ death, the couple had begun a church-based community project that has since blossomed.

Struck by the deprivation they had seen in their neighbourhood of High Green, Sheffield, they had set up a makeshift food bank from their garage.

Three weeks before Mr Greaves’ murder, they expanded the St Saviour’s Project, named after their church, by opening a community shop and food bank on their street.

Mrs Greaves said she had been left so heartbroken in the immediate aftermath of her husband’s death that she had stepped back from the project, but once she realised it had started to struggle she began to get involved again.

“It was something we created together and I didn’t want it to fail,” she said.